Devotion is a pieceful word, full of passion; it flows
Commitment is a heavy word, loaded, full of sacrifices; it is given and taken
What makes me love devotion and hate commitment?
Obligations!
I want to be devoted, love, care and praise as I feel and wish; I don't want the need and necessity to be committed to a certain code of conduct in my sensational relations. I won't commit and won't ask for it ever again; this is a time to live with devotion
Commitments (4)
We get to know people, become interested, enjoy spending time with them, like their presence and fantasize their caring. We let the joy drive the relation deeper and deeper and forget that a relation has too many faces, only one is joy. Once the relation has dominated our lives, it can't hide its true nature and other faces show up; joy transforms into want and then into need; with the ugly face of "need" comes duty, obligation and commitments. Need spreads like a virus and infects the entire relationship; then it starts to consume up all the resources we have for love, affection, passion and happiness.
We know that we're into a sick relation but don't wanna give up; don't wanna lose it, don't wanna admit that we made a mistake; we let the sick relation survive in the most disastrous condition, but don't let it away...
We know that we're into a sick relation but don't wanna give up; don't wanna lose it, don't wanna admit that we made a mistake; we let the sick relation survive in the most disastrous condition, but don't let it away...
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